So I've been dealing with a guy for almost 3 years now but we aren't in a relationship because 2 months down the line of talking, he popped up with a girlfriend after he said he didn't have one. This man expects me to deal with other people but at the same time, wait for him. He continuously hurts me and expects me to be okay with the way he treats me. Do you think I should stay in whatever this is or go on with my life?
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Please try to find someone who treats you better. You deserve that.
- Anonymous -
Whyyyyyyyy would you stay in that?
- Anonymous -
Bun him.
- Anonymous -
Too often women are forced to suppress their emotions/overall well-being. Focus on you sis.
- Anonymous -
My first question is what does 'dealing with' mean?? And that'd also where you should start. If after 2 months you found out he had a gf and it's been 3 years and you're still here... Then he's not the problem. You are!! Why have you allowed this man to rule your mind and heart so much?? And I really need you to think on this... You've given husband privileges to a man who isn't even a boyfriend. And while you can't undo that, you can start asking yourself why this is how you're showing up in this relationship or whatever it is so that it doesn't become a pattern that you repeat for the rest of your life! You have to work on you. If you don't, men will continue to use you and you will end up with a string of failed relationships and a shit load or anger and resentment towards men. Walk away from him and walk into a space that will help you get to the bottom of these issues so you can create a better future for yourself 🤍.
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I think you should go on with your life and leave the man alone.
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Leave him. He clearly doesn't value you and he's abusing your loyalty. Move on.
- Anonymous -
Life is too short to waste it on people who don't value you. MOVE ON!
- Anonymous -
Thank you, NEXT!
- Anonymous -
When you said "whatever this is", you already figured it out. Find your happiness elsewhere!
- Anonymous -
Girl you make 2020 hit with all that covid and have mate add more stress. Peace out.
- Anonymous -
Honestly you should just leave and move on with life because life too sweet for that.
- Anonymous -
Run girl run.
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Sis should leave and don't look back.
- Anonymous -
What @tamaradme said!!
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You don't treat the people you care about that way. Leave him because you deserve better.
- Anonymous -
My girl you already know what to do. You can recognize he treats you bad so LEAVE.
- Anonymous -
Your mental health is more important babe leave dat der. Kité Sa.
- Anonymous -
You should run honey you deserve better.
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She doesn’t need anyone to tell her what she already knows...Trust me you know what you should do.
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You're worth more than that. That boy sees you as someone who will tolerate his BS.
- Anonymous -
He likes the idea OF you. If he really liked you, he would treat you better. Know your worth.
- Anonymous -
He don't love you sis. Move on. He's not the only man on earth.
- Anonymous -